A Simple Summer Challenge to Boost Your Child’s Confidence

A Simple Summer Challenge to Boost Your Child’s Confidence

Hi there,
 
It’s Dr. Reon Baird-Feldman here again — and I want to share something fun, simple, and meaningful you can do with your child this week to support their confidence and emotional growth.
 
I call it the 3-Day Confidence Quest — and it’s designed to help kids recognize their strengths, practice kindness, and try something brave… all while having fun.
 
No extra prep. No fancy tools. Just 10 intentional minutes a day and some encouragement from you.
 
Here’s how it works:
🎯 3-Day Confidence Challenge for Kids
 
🗓️ Day 1: Superpower Spotlight
Ask your child:
“What are 3 things that make you really special?”
 
Write them down or draw them together. You can even decorate a sticky note or affirmation card and put it somewhere they’ll see it often — on the fridge, a mirror, or inside their lunchbox.
 
🗓️ Day 2: Kindness Captain
Challenge your child to do one kind thing for someone else — a sibling, a pet, a neighbor, or even you.

Then ask:
“How did that feel?”

Recognizing the internal joy that comes from kindness is a powerful self-esteem booster.
 
🗓️ Day 3: Brave Explorer
Encourage them to try something new — even something small!

It could be tasting a new food, drawing something they usually avoid, or introducing themselves to a new friend at camp or in the park.
 
Then celebrate it big! (Silly dance parties count.)
 
These tiny moments become big mindset shifts over time and you don’t need a workbook or screen time tracker to make it happen — just a little bit of curiosity, compassion, and connection.
 
Bonus tip: Use our affirmation water bottles, magnets, or journals as conversation starters during the challenge — kids love spotting positive messages in their everyday routines!
 
You’re doing an incredible job nurturing your child’s heart and mind. Keep going! I’m right here cheering you on.
 
With warmth,

Dr. Reon Baird-Feldman
Founder | Licensed Psychologist
www.2ndcitypsych.com
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